A Little Bit About Me
I am a proud mixed-race British born Black Mauritian, and I am only interested in a partner with Mauritian roots—this is non-negotiable for me. I am upfront, honest, and unapologetically myself; people often describe me as Marmite—you’ll either love me or hate me. I’m a divorcee with a history of partners who have been deeply devoted to me, which reflects the love, kindness, and affection I bring to a relationship. I’ve survived every form of documented abuse imaginable, so I need someone who will love, protect, and care for me wholeheartedly—a kind, decent, funny person to share life’s challenges and joys with.
I am a passionate cook and baker, with chefs from Citroën and Dubai praising my skills as superior to theirs—something I take immense pride in. I am, at my core, a devoted wife, partner, lover, and best friend. I enjoy quiet nights watching TV and exploring different genres but also love occasional outings to the theatre or comedy shows. While I prefer the comfort of home, I am open to compromise if new experiences feel right. Sports aren’t my thing, except for football, which I love; I won’t be joining you at the gym or on the field. Abandoned and neglected by my family since childhood, I come without in-law obligations, offering simplicity in that regard. Lastly, I must share that I’ve often been deemed strikingly beautiful, which draws attention when I step outside. While I never engage with it, my partner must have the confidence to handle compliments that come my way. This is not about ego but honesty—can you be the person to stand by me confidently?
I am deeply knowledgeable about Islam and fully understand how to practice my faith, adhering to the Quran, Sunnah, and the five major hadiths of Bukhari, Muslim, Dawood, Tirmidhi, and Ahmed. My ultimate goal is to perform Umrah and Hajj while I am still young, and I strive to grow and evolve as a Muslim. I seek a partner who understands Islam truthfully and is not overly strict, someone extremely patient, supportive, loving, and willing to help me continue on my spiritual journey. While I do not wear a headscarf and have no immediate plans to do so, my choice of dress is personal and shaped by a life of previously being controlled. I am open to compromise but need my autonomy respected. If patience, affection, and mutual understanding aren’t your values, then I am not the right partner for you.
Professionally, I’m a senior government professional with a strong reputation, but my private life matters most. I want marriage and children soon; I’m not into long-term dating because I’m straightforward and transparent from the start. If you’re Mauritian, ready to embrace a strong, soft-hearted, and deeply loving woman who craves affection, then let’s connect. If not, I wish you the best. Thank you.
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What I Am Looking For
I am ONLY seeking someone who is Mauritian, has Mauritian roots, or is mixed-race Mauritian. This is about shared culture, language, and comfort—While I’ve dated different nationalities, this is my preference.
You don’t need to be British-born, but permanent residency in the UK is essential. Age doesn’t matter—it’s just a number. However, I want a man who earns well, can support himself and me, and aligns with my Islamic values: the man is the provider, and my money is mine.
Personality-wise, I value honesty, trustworthiness, altruism, extreme affection, extreme kindness, and unwavering support. You must accept me for who I am, as I’ve shaped myself for others in the past, and I won’t do it again.
Physically, I’m 5’9” and prefer a man my height or taller. I’m drawn to bigger, athletic builds with facial hair—someone strong, not skinny. I’m curvy but slim and want a partner who matches this energy.
I want children, so it’s essential that you also desire to be a parent. Family is a bonus, but if you don’t have one, I’ll be yours.
Finally, I expect a partner who contributes to household chores—this must be equal. If you can’t cook, no problem—I’ll handle that. But beyond cooking, everything else needs to be shared or more.
If this resonates, let’s talk.
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